spending time

If You get along with you x you should always try to spend time together with your children. Even if your x was bad to you it never hurts to try to get along for the kids sakes.

Her I am at a zoo with my son and daughter and my x. We spend time together as a family whenever we can. We have a custody battle raging on that he started and I'm loosing and I still invited him to Thanksgiving and he came.

We were just at a birtday party at my brother Glenn's Saturday. I have a lot of issues with my x and he has done a LOT of things to me that I can't prove. He is now claiming to the court that i'm an unfit mother but I think of my child.

I find it more important that she see her cousin rather then whatever Derek is saying about me now come between that. Ask your self can you grin and bare it?


It is important to show your daughter and sons that we all do the best we can. We should always be positive and get along as best we can. We are not all perfect, being a parent is not a perscription for perfect I believe we should all just try to get along as a family.