You have to be very careful about what you say to your x. They can go into court and accuse you of all kinds of things and get temporary custody of your children. From experience I know that I have been accused of smoking pot and crack and the court handed my children over to my x.
The best way to avoid this is to not fall into a trap. Do not talk to them about anything in your personel life. When they pick up your children do not let them in your house have them wait at the door.
They will use your children against you if they can. They can walk into court and accuse you of anything. If they catch you off gaurd you will find yourself at a visitation center, being drug tested and having a phys. evalutation. So never let them in on your personel life.
Keep your thoughts and opinions to yourself. Don't fight with them. Remember the law is not always on your side. The courts might be leaning toward giving the fathers more say then they deserve.
The court is allegedly frowning on women with Post Traumatic Stress and are adding to your illness by handing your kids over to your x. The defense has been used to many times and the courts might not want to hear it anymore. Keep records and recordings of all your contact with you x and you will beable to defend yourself when they lie about you. Otherwise you will be their victims again and again.
Has anyone else had a similar experience?
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